Reflection 6: An Illusion

 Illusion is a human defence mechanism. It is an escape mechanism that the mind uses when reality is just too much too bear, like a shower that is simply too cold. Illusion is comfortable. The hard questions do not have to be asked or answers heard. My mind invented and convinced me what my medical condition was: streptococcus. A bacteria. Something that can be dealt with and then forgotten. That is what I told anyone who asked.

 But it wasn't. That is a falsehood. That comfortable solution proved to be a invention.

 It was melanoma. 

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